男人不坏, 女人不爱; 女人不美, 男人不爱...真的假的...??

今天DJ我呢,要聊到男男女女的事... ...

Hmmm... 所谓的"男人不坏，女人不爱"这个道理，绝对没有包括"劈腿"这件事. 男人坏可以坏,但是劈腿是切忌,绝对不能容忍的事. 女士们要记住哦!
而我们呢,hmmm...当然要美,内在和外在都要保护,呵护和保养. 偶尔撒撒娇,装点可爱也是必须的. 劈腿也是切忌哦!! 其他的,就自然而然的会发生... 不必太勉强,也不必太刻意... 我们都知道嘛,感情是盲目... 呵呵呵呵呵~!

最近看这部电视剧"18禁不禁" 非常有意思... 推荐给你们看看... 内容呢,是关于男生和女生怎么能相处的融洽,还有了解对方的心思以及幻想... 但是! 你们可别向歪到北极...这可是部健康的节目... :D

今天要带来这首歌词,献给Violet... (as promised) hehehehx....
那个人虽然离开你了，但是，明白不是你失去了他，而是他失去了你，失去了美丽的你，那无可替代的曾经深爱着他的你...
如果有一天你看到他的话，别伤心... 这种人，不值得你为他哭，勇敢得上前的祝福他，也祝福你自己已经没和他在一起了...

Here goes:

你有權利情緒化　你不一定要堅強
但有些事情　不能偽裝　別為自己設了框

我懂失去的悲傷　也懂進退的掙扎
但想起過去　都是失望　又何必要放不下

是習慣　還是愛　不放心　還是不甘心
只有你　自己知道解答

其實你沒有那麼愛他　真的不需要那麼想他
編織過的夢想　自己也可以抵達　誰說一定要有他

其實你沒有那麼愛他　沒有深陷到不可自拔　
認清了真心話你就放得下

深呼吸　抬頭望　發現天空很寬廣
這世界那麼大　幸福總會在某個地方

擁有過的計劃　留給值得的對象　你知道不會是他

http://profile.imeem.com/oaXeDy/music/hNZmSKOW/mei_na_me_ai_ta/

This is a song by 范玮琪，entitled 没那么爱他 (edited slightly by me)... Hope you gals find it meaningful and encouraging... and hope it helps u get back that motivation to move on and start anew... Dont let those past memories haunt you anymore...

I know sometimes, it is hard to erase everything, or to put it down and let go... Just felt like you have to see who the other person is... Knowing him to be such a guy, i felt like, well... he doesn deserve your tears or all those sad moments... Just take it as a nightmare u had and wake up to a new day after that....
If you see him one day, tell him that if i ever see him when i get back, 他就死定了！敢欺负我的姐妹... heex... cheer up k?? We'll move on together... :D

Signing out tonite with a saying:
爱情不过是大脑分泌的一种腺体,当分泌结束了, 爱情也就跟着结束了... ... Cheer up~

DJ收工！heex~!

Definition of 21st Century, Anyone???

I was chatting with Violet the other day... About club-goers... And she mentioned the changes in this society... The part where girls are now more 主动... in asking guys out...etc I mean... Haix... why do they do that.... Aren't we supposed to be the 被动 party?

This brings me to another related topic... Like if we were to mention last decade ago that we steal things, i'm-gay/lesbian cases, break rules or had pre-marital sex...etc... People will alienate us... Now, if we are to live our lives the proper and good-mannered way, people alienate us... I'm like dumb-struck here... Whatever causes such a huge change?

I know, yea , i get it like, OS: Hey we are in the 21st century... So what's the big deal?

I dunno... I mean, yea 21st century... But, what the heck does 21st century supposed to mean anyways?
Still is a mystery to me and i think it will always be...

Anyways, haven't been feeling well recently, as in physically... Having cramps and just really feeling super sick about everything.... Like u know, can never sit still, or find a comfortable position to stay still... getting really lethargic ALL the time... really sianx about it....

Wonder what can make all these feel better......

No dedications today... no inspirations for any songs to fit todays' topic....

If you happen to know any song lyrics that fits todays topic, let me know yea? Thanks :D

Signing out....

To forgive and forget... Easier said than done....

Hmm...Well, it is me again! (decided to give myself a position title: Blog DJ, so read the blogs as if i am using that DJ soothing voice over the radio those type k?? cos i am so inspired by Dennis....)

Anyways, I'm back with a new post... gonna post the lyrics for the song on my blog player... it is by Linkin Park (聯合公園), Leave Out All the Rest... This song kinda fit into my blog skin... the NightLife theme... :P

With this, gonna also post something i think is kinda relatable to all of us... there are sentences in this world that are so much easier said than done... an example? to forgive and forget.... yeap....
After going thru all the hurts, after going thru so many miserable nights some people made you go thru, your friends are there to advice you: forgive and forget.... so u OS: Woah! that is really easier said than done... 真的可以忘記嗎???

Sometimes, when the trust is no longer there in the relationship, it is just so hard to build it up again.... we are all afraid that we may get hurt again.... Like the saying, "once bitten twice shy" We are so afraid that if the same thing happen again, then this time, we may "fall" even deeper, and get hurt even deeper... Haix...人生,真是煩啊...

Anyways....here is the lyric, hope you guys like it... :D

I dreamed I was missing
You were so scared
But no one would listen
Cause no one else cared

After my dreaming
I woke with this fear
What am I leaving
When I'm done here

So if you're asking me
I want you to know

When my time comes
Forget the wrong that I've done
Help me leave behind some
Reasons to be missed

And don't resent me
And when you're feeling empty
Keep me in your memory

Leave out all the rest
Leave out all the rest

Don't be afraid
I've taking my beating
I've shared what I've been

I'm strong on the surface
Not all the way through
I've never been perfect
But neither have you

So if you're asking me
I want you to know

Forgetting
All the hurt inside
You've learned to hide so well

Pretending
Someone else can come and save me from myself
I can't be who you are

http://cmacs.imeem.com/music/tHpe-Q3e/leave_out_all_the_rest/

PS: 有時候，真的是不知道你在想什麽, 我可是把你當作我最好的朋友，但是，你呢?
我想象和看待的这份友情的和你想象的是一樣嗎? 還是我只是在想太多了?...

It's been rainin lately.....

There are reasons why certain people prefer the rainy days to sunny days and vice-versa....

Those who liked sunny days are more to the jovial, loud-spoken type of person... Whereas, on the other side, those who prefer the rainy days are the more "penny-for-your-thot" type.... They are rather calm and quiet... Well, you get the picture....

These few days have been raining... And i decided to post out a fav rainy song lyrics... heex...

It may be you are feeling down about something (i.e raining in ur life) or you just hate/love rainy days... Hope this song can keep u company and make u feel much much better....

Here goes:

還記得那夜　青春最初一頁
眼前的世界　看起來快毀滅
你在我身邊　看著屋簷　像末日的雨天
倘若雨大一些　是否靠近一點
你沒有察覺　心跳特別強烈
颱風把沉默　吹襲了一整夜
明明有感覺　可惜時間　溜出了我指尖
回頭只看得見　滿地回憶的碎片

答案一直到今天　才在我心中浮現　愛情曾出現
那一瞬間　我們都沒發現
那雨勢一直到今天　還下在我心裡面　淋濕了雙眼
事過境遷　才清晰地看見　你的臉

後來那幾年　當然也有雨天
我開始學會　等雨後的晴天
誰在我身邊　渡過長夜　任雨點再傾洩
卻再也找不回　當時心動感覺

你是否偶而　像我靜靜懷念
嵐一樣的愛　傾盆的那一年
如果那場雨　再度襲捲　重新再淋一遍
我一定抱住你　絕對不讓你走遠

http://profile.imeem.com/Ne9bJz/music/jys_xzOD//

This is a song composed by Tank, 吕建忠 entitled 風,... Going out to all of you, hope this song lyric can accompany you thru all those "rainy" days.... And also to cheer u up.... :)

Signing out...

Friends Forever...

Have you ever met someone whom u thot you will never make friends with? But in the end, after a twist of fate, you come to a situation where you didn have a choice but to get along with him/her... And suddenly, you OS: Hey this person isn so bad after all... Result: you guys become the best of mates...

Well, I had one such incident... And now, i found not only a friend, she is like my sister, my twin and a confidant... We kept no secrets from one another, we think almost alike and sometimes even psychic.... We can read one another's mind... Not all the time, but most of the time... :)

Anyways, you know who u are, yea that's U... Gwendolyn Neo Wei Lin...

Today's dedication is specially for you... I know you are kinda frustrated and emotional about your group... Well, watever it is, I wanna send you this lyrics (again, edited by me to fit this)... And hope it cheers you up and to tell you that i will be here for you always... 24/7... I know things can be so difficult to explain sometimes.... I definitely understand that... hehehehex... So the only thing to do is just to Keep Fighting! :D

Here goes:

第一次見面看你不太順眼 誰知道後來關係那麼密切
我們一個像夏天一個像秋天 卻總能把冬天變成了春天

#妳拖我離開一場愛的風雪 我背妳逃出夢的斷裂
遇見一個人然後生命全改變
原來不是戀愛才有的情節

如果不是你我不會相信 朋友比情人還死心塌地
就算我偶尔忙把你冷凍結冰
你也不會恨我 只是罵我幾句

如果不是你我不會確定 朋友比情人更懂得傾聽
我的弦外之音 我的有口無心
我发现我觉得離不開你

你了解我所有得意的東西 才常潑我冷水怕我忘形
你知道我所有丟臉的事情 卻為我的美好形象保密

很高興遇見你 讓我終究明白 回憶比真實精采
谢谢你朋友 我会珍惜我们的这一切

http://hmeising.imeem.com/music/FP9QxNE0/yi_ge_xiang_xia_tian_yi_ge_xiang_qiu_tian/

This is a song by 范玮琪 "一个像夏天 一个像秋天" relating the real values of Friends... They know our silly sides, our embarrassing moments...etc Dedicated to all of you guys out there, who needs any encouragements from friends.... We quarrel, we fight, we argue and have all those cold wars.... But guess what... Other than our own family, we have friends who will always be there for us, and create so much beautiful memories with us....

If you are having a cold war with your friends, now is the time to patch things up and get back to creating even more wonderful memories yea? 朋友是一辈子的，有误会就讲清楚，别等一下后悔就来不及了...

Hope you guys like it...

Specially for Violet...

Wow wow wow... Alot of dedications tonite for Violet...

This poem is done up by the person who send me a poem for my Bday... Yeax... the Id guy... hahahahahx... I managed to asked him to write me a poem for my special friend, Violet, who is going through a moodswing... heex... Thanks Id...

Anyways, this is specially for you or those whose names are Violet...

Violet

Life is like the season
Changes for a reason
It makes you strong
Or might go wrong

Life can be a wreck
Be strong, don’t give a heck
Take a look deep inside
Hold yourself with pride

Forget the painful past
I swear it will never last
Look for the best in the future
It’s for the better I’m sure

Flower your name is
A light with so much bliss
I know the pain kills
Hold on as time heals

Id
26/05/07

Okai... Hope these cheers u up k?? For those who are able to understand both entries/dedications... Yea, that means U.... Let us know your comments... :D

Signing out...

好人有好抱...加油哦!!!

If you all know, there is such a DJ/VJ in Taiwan, his name is Dennis... Yeax... the professional judge in most singing competitions... He is someone, who basically has the whole lot of songs names, albums...etc... in his brains... He can tell you, just by listening to the tune of the song, the artist who sang it, the title of the song, which album was it in, the year it was out, and how the artist was feeling at that time while creating the album/song.... amazing yeax?? Well, he is just like an mp3 archive...with more detailed informations in his brains.... He is definitely someone i inspire...

Today, felt like putting this up, for Violet... ( do i sound like this DJ on the radio, with that soothing voice saying why she is playing the next song and everything?? hahahahx) Ok, Think too much le...

Anyways, back to this dedication: It is for Violet... who is feeling somewhat rather down and alone... Heyx, we are all here for u k?? I know times are tough now... with all that break-up... But gal! everyone will pass thru this stage... yours just came in a little early than the rest of us.... so wat? Cheer up and get back up on ur feet soon k?? :D

公主別哭腫大眼睛
悲痛太不流行 浪費美麗

分手像搭乘滑翔翼
飄過風裡雲裡 降落草地

都曾努力 別全否定
他並不是不愛你~ 是更愛隨興

如果回憶太吵妳睡不著
把我當沙發靠一靠
好人有好抱 是天使就會被愛找到

不能阻止所有風暴
但我們會背著妳逃
好人有好抱 妳會有浪漫又可靠的 擁抱

早晚，幸福會抱著妳吵鬧微笑...

http://miie88.imeem.com/music/un2V39Wb/hao_ren_you_hao_bao/

Well, this is actually the lyrics by S.H.E 好人有好抱, slightly edited by me... For U... All those having to face break-ups... I mean, this is part of everyone's life, we all go thru it one way or another... so if you think life's tougher after this, i guess, life isn meant to be easy in the first place....

Think positive, and get back up on your feet... 姐姐妹妹站起来哦!!

First entry in the Blog... EXCITED...

Well, i am not much of a blog person... i write my diary almost everyday but never thot of publishing it to the public... But i felt i want to make this blog something more special than just writing about how my days went or how i am feeling or all those mundane n daily stuffx...

Inspired by a fren of mine... I decided to make my blog to be a website to encourage my special group of frens, honor for their deeds, and all those stuffx.... During Bdays, their sad times or even during their happy times, offer my congratulations.... The idea was planted and pushed on to grow by the encouragements from Violet.... So yeax... hahahahx, here it is!

Gonna start with a poem my fren wrote for me during my Bday... 19th May 2007... That day, I had like the worst bdays in life... I was not where i wanted to be, with who i wanted to be with...etc I felt like i rather pass this day and move on, pretending tt day never exsisted...

Then, on the 20th morning, i opened my email and found this poem, written for me by a fren... and i was definitely lifted off my feet... A smile ran across my face... and i laughed, like i have never laughed in a long long time... ( u know who u are :D many thanks here once again...)

So here goes:

The Crossroad.

I know it's so hard to please
To put their heart at ease.
They make you feel amiss
Like giving a frog a kiss.

I know sometimes they make you wonder
Why you choose to stay in yonder.
If the friendship they make you question
Believe me, it's your own great decision.

Stay true to what you believe in
Don't let the uncertainty to break in.
Parents and friends might cross
But you are still the boss.

So if in the land of Great Wall you choose
Let your mind on loose.
Although you are in yonder
Abscence makes the heart grows fonder.

Id
19/05/07

Wanna thank Yalin, my "gossip reporter" fren, for helping me print screen the whole website where it was found.... the headines and everything...

Thanks guys!! Miss yea guys here lots!!! heex